A new bride shared on Reddit that her cousin and his wife 'almost ruined' her wedding after they flouted the no-alcohol ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a platter, restaurant gift card or other anniversary gift) or a shared ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a platter, restaurant gift card or other anniversary gift) or a shared ...

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DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a platter, restaurant gift card or other anniversary gift) or a shared ...

However, when it comes to more formal occasions—like receiving a wedding gift or when someone goes out of their way for you—a handwritten thank-you note remains a more thoughtful gesture.

Now that she is getting ready to send out thank-you notes to her wedding guests, the OP is wondering whether or not she should send one to the alcohol-sneaking couple. "They didn't get us a wedding ...