The Kobayashi Maru is all about the neighbours, doubly so. First, it wouldn't be much of a test, nor half as much fun, if it ...
The Kobayashi Maru test was designed to be unwinnable, forcing cadets to face the fact that they might eventually end up in one of those scenarios. Of course, we all know that Captain James T.
Another one of those first steps towards it would be to realise that nothing in life, not even the Kobayashi Maru, is ever quite so simple as win-win/lose-lose. Plus, to think in such binary terms ...