You are a complete woman on your own. Your boyfriend is a complement to your life, but your happiness doesn't depend on him. Love him from a place of freedom, not necessity!

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

How can I get him to see that we are meant to be and not to give up on the best relationship both of us have ever had?