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When parents force their children to follow rules of politeness, it can cause resistance, lack of authenticity, and stress.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I have a strong moral requirement not to lie, which has led me to reflect on the role of full truthfulness ...

Even if such responses are socially acceptable as “white lies,” I’m concerned they could be more harmful in the long run.

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