So when better to throw in another emotional Stabler family dinner? Stabler starts the episode in a very contemplative state, at Kathy’s grave. “I sometimes feel I don’t know where I am.

[Warning: The below contains MAJOR spoilers for Law & Order: Organized Crime Season 4 Episode 9 “Semper Fi.”] It’s not easy to make a person see that they need help, as is the case with Joe ...