Furthermore, antagonism, the opposite of an expression of love, will likely only make your fears worse. What I’m suggesting isn’t easy. Showing love in the face of fear isn’t a natural reaction.

I knew our star had to leave the studio cocoon and run towards fear. We filled their schedule with on-stage gigs in front of large crowds, spotlighted client meetings, and encouraged on-camera work.

The opposite to leading with fear is leading with love. Love, trust and kindness do not mean weakness. Rather, they mean building a strong tribe on a basis of respect and understanding.