The video, which has received over 711,000 views, revealed how a woman's groom-to-be gathered guest addresses for wedding invitations ... A smiling man licks an envelope. Stock image: A smiling ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My beloved and I are planning a small, intimate wedding ... that the lack of a formal printed invitation would be seen as a breach in etiquette. Can you please advise us?

Now, if you want to decline an invitation to be part of the wedding party — whether a bridesmaid or groomsman — that may be a tougher and more awkward conversation to have, Lowry said.