DEAR MISS MANNERS: I have taken note of repeat inquiries about how to deal with not being invited to a wedding -- presumably, though not always in so many words, without being a jerk in return.

One half of this couple would prefer to find out WHO a guest is bringing and include that name on the invitation.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I have taken note of repeat inquiries about how to deal with not being invited to a wedding -- presumably, though not always in so many words, without being a jerk in return.

Fiancé thinks addressing plus ones by name on wedding invites isn’t important, but the letter writer disagrees.