Feb 9, 2021 · Your boyfriend is almost certainly a feeder (see “feederism”). It’s important that you enjoy gaining weight too and that this is consensual. If you enjoy it, then it’s definitely worth exploring more.

Nov 30, 2017 · My boyfriend and I have been together 7 years and over that time (and especially within the last 2), he has put on a lot of weight. He’s always been a ‘bulkier’ guy and it never bothered me, but now he’s ~55lbs heavier than when we met, and into obese territory if you measure his BMI.

Aug 22, 2017 · Is your boyfriend’s weight a deal killer for you? It might be. You have a right to your preferences. But you’re going down a dangerous path when you hitch your wagon to an erotic ideal.

He wants me to gain more weight, mostly because it goes to my ass. He makes me feel so beautiful as I am, but at the same time he continues to say I need to eat and it confuses me. He's obsessed with it, and he encourages me to keep eating constantly, because theres more to grab and "more to love".

Jan 27, 2025 · Gaining weight in a relationship can be caused by a few different factors. We can’t speak for all couples, but here are common culprits of why some couples gain weight: Eating more (and more unhealthily). When you’re paired up, you might be going on regular date nights at restaurants or joining in whenever your partner orders takeout.

Take some time to identify what characteristics you are associating with being overweight and then get real with yourself. Are you actually that way? If so, do you long to be different? How can you put attention to those qualities directly instead of solely focusing on your weight?

Nov 4, 2023 · Is your boyfriend intentionally trying to make you gain weight? Discover the signs of insecurity and manipulation, and learn how to reclaim your health and confidence.

Dec 21, 2023 · we are in our early 30s and over the years he’s gained a significant amount of weight (from 180lb to pushing 300lb) with a lot sitting on his large stomach. I don’t know his exact weight. Last time I did was last year after a hosp appt and was 280. I thought that’d be a wake up call. But it was not.

Sep 6, 2018 · Your partner's habits could be influencing your weight gain. Here's how to tell if your partner is making you gain weight and what to do about.

Nov 4, 2021 · The good news about this is that even though you’re less attracted to your boyfriend right now (fine, valid, morally neutral), there is opportunity for that to change, for your attraction to...